If you want to build a better relationship with someone, try cooking with them! I realized that cooking was a magical solution when I was looking for a way to connect with my son. When we started cooking together, the kitchen quickly became that non-threatening place, with lots of open spaces in the conversation where we could talk about things that matter. It also became the place where we could talk about better food choices, and where we were not only making meals, but powerful, positive memories that helped us build a lasting connection.